Worse than ˢᵉˣᵘᵃˡ ʰᵃʳᵃˢˢᵐᵉⁿᵗ?
Official Removal and Goodbye.
- Jonesome
- Registered user
- Posts: 238
- Joined: 09 Aug 2016, 03:22
- Location: Denver, CO USA
- Byond: Jonesome
- Steam: Darth Dan
- Recounted
- Registered user
- Posts: 513
- Joined: 23 Jul 2016, 11:49
- Location: nested
-
- Registered user
- Posts: 46
- Joined: 07 Dec 2015, 04:06
- Byond: Tornadium
- Steam: Tornadium
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
I mean, I wouldn't consider that sexual harassment. Yeah it was a dick thing to say not harassment though.
"Harassment covers a wide range of behaviors of an offensive nature. It is commonly understood as behavior that disturbs or upsets, and it is characteristically repetitive."
Being a dick to someone for 10 minutes and saying a word twice does not constitute harassment, It's just that. Being a dick.
The mute button is also a thing.
- forwardslashN
- Community Contributor
- Posts: 2495
- Joined: 14 Dec 2015, 23:12
- Byond: forwardslashN
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
What a ride. I know the server won't be the same without you, for better or worse, but now you can focus on other things.
The ambivalent giant white baldie in a jungle near you.
- Jonesome
- Registered user
- Posts: 238
- Joined: 09 Aug 2016, 03:22
- Location: Denver, CO USA
- Byond: Jonesome
- Steam: Darth Dan
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
The definition of sexual harassment includes making obscene remarks about someone based upon their sex.
- Helgraf
- Registered user
- Posts: 417
- Joined: 02 May 2016, 15:48
- Location: Massachusetts, U.S.A
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
Before I begin, I'm going to state that I haven't read the report yet, so I don't know exactly what happened besides some stuff said about it here.
Let me begin by saying that I didn't really know Feweh that well, even though I was staff here for close to a year. Did I like him that much? I'll be blunt and say no. Did I hate him? No. I don't really like him or hate him. I'm sort of on the fence, although I may lean a bit towards disliking him. Did I find him to be an asshole many times? I did. However, I won't deny the things that he did for this server, whether they for the better or the worse.
I don't really have much else to say about him. As mentioned previously, I didn't really know him that well or talk with him much, even when I was staff here. While I may not like him, I believe that he deserves some respect, even if many of the things he's done makes him seem like an asshole. All in all, RIP Feweh.
Let me begin by saying that I didn't really know Feweh that well, even though I was staff here for close to a year. Did I like him that much? I'll be blunt and say no. Did I hate him? No. I don't really like him or hate him. I'm sort of on the fence, although I may lean a bit towards disliking him. Did I find him to be an asshole many times? I did. However, I won't deny the things that he did for this server, whether they for the better or the worse.
I don't really have much else to say about him. As mentioned previously, I didn't really know him that well or talk with him much, even when I was staff here. While I may not like him, I believe that he deserves some respect, even if many of the things he's done makes him seem like an asshole. All in all, RIP Feweh.
-
- Registered user
- Posts: 46
- Joined: 07 Dec 2015, 04:06
- Byond: Tornadium
- Steam: Tornadium
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
It really doesn't nor is it enforceable in the case of something so mild as this. I guarantee you not a single human being would be prosecuted for sexual harassment for calling someone a slut, That's not how the world works. We're not here to debate that however and this isn't the place for it. I would also argue that the term has become very gender neutral as of late also.
- KingPhilipIII
- Registered user
- Posts: 235
- Joined: 20 Jan 2016, 20:09
- Location: US of A
- Byond: KingPhilipIII
- Steam: KingPhilip128
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
sex·u·al ha·rass·ment
noun
harassment (typically of a woman) in a workplace, or other professional or social situation, involving the making of unwanted sexual advances or obscene remarks.
Pulled straight from the internet.
Thanks to Okand for the chibi muhrine!
Haythem Aurelius Castian
Box pusher, Box Pusher Supreme and Pyromaniac.
Unashamed Queen Main Mentor:July 31st, 2018
Haythem Aurelius Castian
Box pusher, Box Pusher Supreme and Pyromaniac.
Unashamed Queen Main Mentor:July 31st, 2018
- edda
- Registered user
- Posts: 164
- Joined: 03 Nov 2017, 07:32
- Byond: Edda
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
Feweh absolutely deserved removal on account of his actions w.r.t. Corazon. The debate over harassment is just semantics, the behavior in itself is absolutely inappropriate in CM staff, although I'd certainly compliment the staff in general for being able to maturely handle this matter. If the same thing happened over at Paradise? Yeah, good luck getting any staff member removed.
THAT SAID, Feweh was a great admin (outside of certain conversations), and his events reflect his dedication to the server as well as his ability to make fun custom games. I will indeed miss him and his removal of dabbers' limbs.
And I hope Corazon is still with us. Fisher is a great character and I hope to see her deploy again.
THAT SAID, Feweh was a great admin (outside of certain conversations), and his events reflect his dedication to the server as well as his ability to make fun custom games. I will indeed miss him and his removal of dabbers' limbs.
And I hope Corazon is still with us. Fisher is a great character and I hope to see her deploy again.
Finnian Cottier
- JennerH
- Registered user
- Posts: 559
- Joined: 26 Oct 2017, 13:12
- Byond: JennerH
- Steam: Chocolate Thunder
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
Wait, we can dab in relative safety now?!edda wrote: ↑06 Mar 2018, 20:25Feweh absolutely deserved removal on account of his actions w.r.t. Corazon. The debate over harassment is just semantics, the behavior in itself is absolutely inappropriate in CM staff, although I'd certainly compliment the staff in general for being able to maturely handle this matter. If the same thing happened over at Paradise? Yeah, good luck getting any staff member removed.
THAT SAID, Feweh was a great admin (outside of certain conversations), and his events reflect his dedication to the server as well as his ability to make fun custom games. I will indeed miss him and his removal of dabbers' limbs.
And I hope Corazon is still with us. Fisher is a great character and I hope to see her deploy again.
- Casany
- Registered user
- Posts: 1555
- Joined: 06 Jun 2016, 09:18
- Location: US of A
- Byond: Casany
- Steam: Casany
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
I think it’s sexism. Feweh is a dick to everyone. He makes obscene remarks to everyone. But the second a woman is offended he’s removed. If a man had made the same report on something like this nothing woulda been done.
Feweh was a cool guy. Dunno what else to say honestly. But his reason for removal was just stupid. But that’s my opinion.
Feweh was a cool guy. Dunno what else to say honestly. But his reason for removal was just stupid. But that’s my opinion.
"He killed me with a SADAR and it was bullshit. We should ban him for ERP because of how VIOLENTLY HE FUCKED ME" - Biolock, Saturday 15 October 2016
"Sometimes you need to stop and enjoy the little things in life, for one day you'll look back and realize they were big things"
"To quote Suits A cop follows a car long enough, he's gonna find a busted tail light. And even if he doesn't, he's gonna bust it himself." - Awan on being an MP
"Sometimes you need to stop and enjoy the little things in life, for one day you'll look back and realize they were big things"
"To quote Suits A cop follows a car long enough, he's gonna find a busted tail light. And even if he doesn't, he's gonna bust it himself." - Awan on being an MP
- Jonesome
- Registered user
- Posts: 238
- Joined: 09 Aug 2016, 03:22
- Location: Denver, CO USA
- Byond: Jonesome
- Steam: Darth Dan
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
No one mentioned anything about being prosecuted. But guaranteed you'd never be able to say stuff like this in your workplace. Just because someone wouldn't press charges doesn't mean you can't be punished.Tornadium wrote: ↑06 Mar 2018, 19:37It really doesn't nor is it enforceable in the case of something so mild as this. I guarantee you not a single human being would be prosecuted for sexual harassment for calling someone a slut, That's not how the world works. We're not here to debate that however and this isn't the place for it. I would also argue that the term has become very gender neutral as of late also.
-
- Registered user
- Posts: 46
- Joined: 07 Dec 2015, 04:06
- Byond: Tornadium
- Steam: Tornadium
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
Depends entirely on your workplace and on the people involved.
Most people have enough common sense to realize when someone isn't being malicious.
As I said, not the place. Come to shitposting for a debate.
- Jonesome
- Registered user
- Posts: 238
- Joined: 09 Aug 2016, 03:22
- Location: Denver, CO USA
- Byond: Jonesome
- Steam: Darth Dan
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
What, acid goop? Also there's a fine line between joking and bullying.
EDIT: I just emailed my coworker calling her a slut and I got fired, I should never have taken your advice Tornadium.
Last edited by Jonesome on 06 Mar 2018, 23:03, edited 1 time in total.
- RobBrown4PM
- Registered user
- Posts: 395
- Joined: 16 May 2016, 11:22
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
This is a game at the end of the day, and we all have real lives to worry about. None of us come on here to get spoken down to, issued derogatory remarks, insulted, et cetera. Leave the crap aside and have some fun playing a stupid 2D spessman game that we all for some reason love and enjoy.
Mains: Roberto 'Taco' Moreno
Usual Jobs: SL/Spec/SG/Engie/XO
Usual Jobs: SL/Spec/SG/Engie/XO
- Swagile
- Registered user
- Posts: 1149
- Joined: 19 Jan 2017, 11:56
- Byond: Swagile
- edda
- Registered user
- Posts: 164
- Joined: 03 Nov 2017, 07:32
- Byond: Edda
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
Yeah, you can thank observers and LOOC chatters for informing the Fewhrer about dabbers, so the appropriate steps may be taken to punish them.
Now with him gone, I can't imagine who would fill the void...
Finnian Cottier
- manezinho
- Community Contributor
- Posts: 494
- Joined: 02 Jul 2017, 15:52
- Byond: manezinho
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
Never knew you but you seemed like a swell dude. I've seen many of your events and I enjoyed a good amount of them. Reading appeals won't be the same without seeing your pink name plastered over every single one.
Please accept my gift of peace.
Farewell Feweh, may you produce salt in other places. o7
Please accept my gift of peace.
Farewell Feweh, may you produce salt in other places. o7
In Game: Andrew Bryson
I do pixel art here. Manezinho's Art Bin
Also check out Okand's stuff, it's pretty neat. Pixel Marines
(PS: Deadchat is best chat.)
I do pixel art here. Manezinho's Art Bin
Also check out Okand's stuff, it's pretty neat. Pixel Marines
(PS: Deadchat is best chat.)
- Sebro
- Registered user
- Posts: 237
- Joined: 10 Jul 2015, 16:00
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
RIP
I get "why" you got removed, I just don't understand WHY you got removed.
You've been pretty cool though, so it's upsetting to see such a longtime member removed from staff.
I get "why" you got removed, I just don't understand WHY you got removed.
You've been pretty cool though, so it's upsetting to see such a longtime member removed from staff.
- QuackingFlack
- Registered user
- Posts: 78
- Joined: 02 Feb 2018, 21:24
- Byond: QuackingFlack
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
He who shoots himself in the foot can be trusted to stay and fight.
- BiohazardZERO
- Registered user
- Posts: 17
- Joined: 16 May 2017, 19:43
- Byond: BiohazardZERO
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
Who is going to remove my arms now?
Arieh 'Dabbin' Erdot: 7 confirmed kills
Low RP Queen: 5 wins
Low RP Queen: 5 wins
- Youbar
- Registered user
- Posts: 334
- Joined: 14 Dec 2014, 22:08
Re: Official Removal and Goodbye.
See you later, leaf. Looks like the rake finally got you.
"Man with one chopstick go hungry."
- Chinese Proverb
- Chinese Proverb