I agree that trying to emulate a Drill Sargent is going to damage the bond between you and your troops more than reinforce it.NoahKirchner wrote:Sure but you have to realize that drill sergeants aren't dicks to be dicks, they have purpose. As such, being a hard-ass dick to your men for no good reason is going to result in them hating you.
However, you also need to know when to be stern. There will be times when you gotta yell, and while I myself don't like to yell at people for being dumbasses, sometimes you need to get that point across that not being a team player is bad and you should feel bad.
A good SL isn't a friend to marines, nor is he a hardass. A good SL is a Father to his men.
You treat your troops like you treat your kids: You try and play nice, but don't be afraid to scold them for being idiots. After all, nothing hurts an SL more than losing good men and women under his command. It is why I do what I do as an SL, and why I take failure so hard, because your troops depend on you to take care of them, and if you aren't taking care of em, you aren't doing a good job...