In order to change that, here is some recommended reading. (If you are a kid with ADD, it's not much to read, skim to the parts you need or everything if you want to get robust)
For those helping to make guides for the xeno community, thanks!
Edit: Been out of commission for quite a few months, work and duty called. But here is the update this needs.
Edit 2: Whew just about everything here is outdated, Ill update my guide and post it to the top, but please make new guides so we can stop losing on Ice colony


ALL OUTDATED (Ravager guide still applies)
Hive "Guide"
http://cm-ss13.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=7675
Macro Guides
http://cm-ss13.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=4875 (Universal macros by N)
http://cm-ss13.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=8598 (Xeno macros by Toroic)
Overall Xeno Guides
http://cm-ss13.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=7626 (my guide, wrote in the wilderness of Alaska, not kidding)
viewtopic.php?t=9559 By Damarik (most up to date)
Ravager Guide
http://cm-ss13.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=5270 (still hailed as the best Ravager guide, its teachings will never get old)
Hivelord Guides
http://cm-ss13.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=4560
(Toroic, don't forget to update this with new hivelord abilities like Resin Walker) THANKS
Crusher Guides
http://cm-ss13.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=8085 By Toroic (Mostly advanced techniques)
viewtopic.php?f=94&t=7865 (More basic and slightly advanced)
Slightly older
Boiler Guide
http://cm-ss13.com/viewtopic.php?f=94&t=4614